The Stallion's Stable of Thoughts and Experiences

check out this old post of mine.. it might help ...

http://mosanmosan.blogspot.com/2004/10/blog-post.html#comments

 

Mosan Mosan: That post did have a few things I can relate to but not everything! I have to admit it was a heart felt poem!

 

I cant wait for you to reach that stage.. some how I knew it will be a bit harsh at this point..

cheers buddy

 

Mosan Mosan: Inshallah I will get there but I have to admit the road will be long and hard, filled with lots of pain and suffering!

 

If this post is linked to ur previous post about mixed emotions, I feel for you. A close person to me went through the same experience awhile ago... I've never been in a relationship before but I lived this one with him. He had the same emotions for her as you do, and actually he still does, but life goes on... It's really hard and it hurts, and it takes along time for one to forget if he ever forgets..
So all I can say is hang on there, and you don't have to forget her since you're happy for her.. always remember the good times you had with her and how she influenced you in who you are today and don't let those tears roll down, instead draw a big smile on ur face and wish her and urself the best :)

Advice: try to occupy urself with work, hobbies, friends and family.

Goodluck and hopefully she'll be happy for you one day.

Nice song...

 

I forgot to mention when I read ur post this song rushed through my mind.

خالد الشيخ: خذني معاك

It's a baeutiful song, one of the best classics from khalid al-shaikd before his songs and style turned the wrong way.

 

Anonymous: Welcome to my blog and yes this song is related to the previous post!

It hurts so much but just like your firend, I too am living through it! I cannot forget her cause I still love her too much and I always will love her! The momories I've had with her were amazing and they run through my mind everyday! I do smile when I see her, and I do wish her all the best! I know she wants the best for me but it will be a long and hard journy for me to find what she has now!

As for your advice, I am doing that but the feelings I have for her overcomes all those factors! Thanks for the good luck wishes and as I said before, the girl wants me to be happy!

I will look for the song and listen to it! Thanks!

 

Sorry, the song title is: عطني وعد
you can find it at 6rb.com

after you're reply I think this song matches your situation, I think it might soothes you down especially the background music.

I wish I can help but there is nothing anyone can do except for providing you support.

My support is this song. I believe that music has it's own magical way of helping one's emotions. Hope u enjoy it :)

p.s That person I told you about still has the hope that 1 day when he's in his 50's he will meet up again with this person and live happily ever after... I think one is very luckly when he has a trait of being hopeful, I personally envy those ppl.. one can rarely find ppl with this trait today

 

Anonymous: Thank you for the sweet words! Seems like your friend and I have the same personality due to the trait you were talking about! I was and still am willing to wait for her even though people think I'm crazy for doing that and this that waiting is a lost cause!

As for the song it's a nice song and it does strike some thoughts! Thanks for the effort! Music does sooth the soul and I listen to alot of music to escape but some songs are hard to listen to cause they hurt since the lyrics are so true and other songs hurt as well becauase they bring back memories that put a smile on ones face but then tears begin rolling down that person's cheecks!

 

u r more than welcome :)

a side note:
u said:
"other songs hurt as well becauase they bring back memories that put a smile on ones face but then tears begin rolling down that person's cheecks!"

Look you're working ur way through this, maybe it's just the beginning of healing from the pain ur feeling... and the initiation came from urself, u used 3rd person when u described "the" feeling.

there u go.. So, hope that's not u that the tears are rolling on his face!

cheers :)

 

Anonymous: I would like to say that it wasn't me but it is! The reason I used 3rd person language is cause I want to speak out for all the people going through what I am experiencing, whether it was a female or a male!

 

oh well... it's a time issue i guess, give it some time and don't be surprised if it takes a long time.

Wish you the best of luck in your life :)

 

Anonymous: WOW, you're pretty quick in getting my replies and commenting back! Mashallah!

I know it's a time based issue and I am actually expecting it to be a long term experience where the feelings won't go away so quickly! Allah isahil 3alay O 3al jamee3!

Thanks for the good luck wishes! I appreciate them as well as your help!

BTW, do I know you? The way you talk is quite familiar!

 

well It's actually my weekend, and i'm surfing the net and doing some reading in the middle of a blizzard :( that explains why i'm quick at responding, ur pretty quick too, no?

I don't know if u know me but I just wanted to help out cause I know how it feels, the person that I mentioned is more than a friend to me and I was trying to help him out during that time and he exactly had the similar feelings as u do, but his situation was different.. and it was hard for me too cause what do I know about relationships, so just going through it with him helped me know how hard and painful it could be..

I don't know if I know you or not, I haven't looked at ur previous posts, this is actually my 1st time in ur blog... but u never know :)

if not then nice meeting u :)

another music recommendation: Listen to Fairuz.. her songs are generally related to everyone's life, her words and voice brings charm all the time.. at least to me :)

 

Anonymous: It's nice to meet you too! I'm quick cause I'm infront of the computer at work and whenever you leave a comment my e-mail notifier tells me that I got a comment on my blog!

It's nice to know that there are people like you in this world and I have a few friends who are willing to help me the way you are! I have to admit though that I'm curious as to what your friend had to go through and what his problem was?!?!

Thanks for the recomendations as well!

 

Anonymous: I totally understand what happened in your friend's life! I've known that there were guys like me in the world and that they are rare, and I do agree with the statment that you wrote regarding good people! Thanks again!

 

u r welcome... can u do me a favor please... can u delete the story I wrote.

Thanks.

Have a good 1 :)

 

Anonymous: Your wish has been granted! I deleted the story!

 

Thanks :)

 

Anonymous: You're welcome!

 

ZinZinQ8: Welcome to my blog! The song was sung by Mo7ammed Al-Misba7 and it's called Ghadar Azaman!